It has always been the quest of ladies to know more about guys especially in this era when a lot of love relationships seem to always hit a snag. We know of a lot of celebrity love stories that last less than time could permit. At times you wonder why such thingsdo happen. Celibs have the “benjamins” to lavish and every lady wants the security of the bank account. There seem to be a lot of information on “how to do’s” in a relationship, but it seem also like the information is never enough. Maybe the modern man has grown extremely sophisticated.
Why I chose the beach as a place to teach our ladies a few lessons about guys is something I find very fascinating. When I decided to work on this post, I discussed with a good friend of mine, and he was like, “Hey man, aren’t you a guy? Why do you want to show them this stuff?” I offered him a wide smile and replied, “I don’t know why, but I want to.” So ladies, here we goooooo!!!!
THE MORE YOU GO INTO HIS HEART THE DEEPER YOU SINK
A lot of ladies don’t realize that a guys heart is as deep as the sea. When you start out with a guy, play a lot at the shore of his heart, as long as you wish. This long stay at the shores of his heart will force him to bring from the deepest recesses what he is hiding. Guys are smart but when they realize that they have a lady who is not perturbed but wants to dedicate everything to research, they can’t hide for long. If they really want you, they’ll play your game, they’ll come to the shore. If they’re not interested, they’ll quickly kick you out after a few flings. If you rush into his heart, you’ll be overwhelmed with what you’ll find. You’ll sink. So stay long at the shore and let them play your game instead.
HE HAS A LOT OF SAND HE’S HEAPING AT THE BEACH
All that sand you see at the beach came from the sea. The sea is on a “heaping campaign”. A dog will always go back to his vomit. Ladies should never make the mistake of thinking a guy loves them so much that he’ll hang himself. We don’t deny the fact that there have been horrifying stories of suicide because of heartbreaks. But the issue is, how often do you hear such news? Once in a while. The dynamics have changed. Guys are putting in place contingency measures every now and then. When a guy doesn’t want you anymore, he’ll bring you so fast to the beach, dump you and take along in his anger, yet a handful of your species. There’s a saying that, “There’s a lot of fish in the sea” but don’t also forget that you risk drowning in an attempt to catch a fish. But the sea loses nothing in spewing out the sand and taking back a few into the deep. So before you decide to go fishing, think twice and have contingency measures as well. Maybe a “life jacket” would help!
A GUY WILL QUICKLY RETREAT TO DEFEND HIMSELF BUT HE’LL BE BACK
If you go to the beach, you’ll not fail to see the back and forth nature of the water. The sea tides charge from afar and move with such momentum that you at times feel they may overflow their natural boundaries. But as they approach the beach, they lose their zeal and retreat. But hey, in less than no time, they’re back. That’s exactly how guys act when they cheat and you catch them. They’ll immediately become charged up and attack you in an attempt to defend themselves. But when your evidence is overwhelming, they’ll temporary retreat. But when they do, they are only thinking about how to clean up the mess and still keep their trust with you. When they find a cover up, they’ll charge at you again.
The next time you think of a quite environment to think about the guy you’ve given your heart to, choose the beach, but not on a holiday. You’ll be amazed the lessons you’ll learn.
Now share with us. What are your own lessons?