1. KEEP OFF THE POEMS AND LOVE MESSAGE APPS FOR NOW
Writing letters is old-fashioned. Agreed! I mean handwritten letters. But it’s fun and genuinely exposes your thoughts. If you write a letter to a girl telling her how beautiful she is, she’ll relive the past. She’ll definitely feel like she’s in an 1842 movie. If you disagree, that’s ok. But you’ll be embarrassed if the girl has access to the same mobile app you’re using to tell her how beautiful she is. You’ll definitely be seen as a fake!
2. GIRLS KNOW THEY’RE NOT 100% PERFECT SO DON’T LIE
At times girls ask questions like: “What do you find beautiful about me?” They do this knowing that they’re not perfect in every area. But you’ll find some guys giving lame answers like: “Everything about you is beautiful.” Immediately you do this, you automatically turn on the “FAKE” button. So genuinely pick an area of her personality and compliment her. She’ll be much pleased and work harder in other areas. The moment you spot another area after sometime, do compliment her. You can say something like: “I used to admire how you manage to wear a smile always, even in the worst situations. But lately I’ve been drawn to your starry eyes; they’re simply awesome!”
3. DON’T DWELL ONLY ON OUTER BEAUTY
Look! The raw fact is, girls care a lot about their physical beauty. And they’ll do everything possible to look that good. However, if it’s only the “boobs” and the “ass” that catches your attention, they immediately know you’re just physically attracted to them. They may never consider you for a long term relationship. They know they won’t keep their physical elements forever; they’ll grow old and look “squeaky”. So let your eyes go beyond the outer sometimes. Consider saying something like: “I’ve been wondering how you so beautifully blend studies with your family responsibilities.”
4. PICK THE RIGHT TIME, PLEASE!
You’re not the first to ever tell her she’s beautiful. They’ve received dozens of such compliments. And they weigh those compliments every now and then. Women know and they’ve been told that they’re beautiful especially when they’re dressed up for a night out or something like that. Try to do yours at an unusual time. Do it when she’s not wearing any make-up and she’s in her true elements. It’ll feel more meaningful and sincere. Pay her a surprise visit early in the morning when she’s just out of bed. No make-up time zone! In fact, if you truly mean it, you’ll see her beauty even when she’s in rags.
5. EXCUSE ME SIR, BE MORE CREATIVE WITH WORDS
Words are powerful and they’re spirits. Using the wrong words can dull your changes with a girl you admire. Words like “beautiful”, “pretty”, and “hot” have been overused. In fact, the girls can easily guess that you’re going to use one of these words almost every time. Be more creative and look for words that mean the same as beautiful. Girls admire creative guys. You can use words like: “enchanting”, “radiant”, “enthralling”, “riveting”, “and mesmeric”. There’re more so go on a search for your own collections.
6. LINK IT WITH AN ACTION
Adding a gift to your compliment isn’t a bad idea. A gift doesn’t need to be expensive. Don’t go out of your skin to get something you can’t afford just to impress her. Be original. “I wish I could buy you the stars, but this is a little token as an expression of your enchanting personality.”
7. TAKE IT TO THE NEXT LEVEL IF YOU REALLY MEAN BUSINESS
Telling her how beautiful she is, is a way of letting her know you wish for something deeper. Let her know how happy you’re being with her. Women are smart these days. They know it if you just want a fling. And if they also do, then hurray! But if she’s not in for that, she’ll obviously scrutinize your actions.
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