A lot of guys have a problem in finding ways of being attractive. They feel that since they have the looks that should be enough to draw people to them. How wrong they are!
Being “magnetic” goes beyond physical looks. “Beauty, they always say, lies in the eyes of the beholder.” Everyone is beautiful, and people who perceive us as such just know it.
WARNING: YOU CAN BE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE BUT VERY REPULSIVE
Many guys erroneously think by being “magnetic”, you have to always go in the “bling”, “bling”. Unfortunately, that’s fallacious.
Being magnetic has a lot of advantages even beyond winning you that lady. It doesn’t come naturally; it’s an art that must be learned. So let’s get down to some tips that will help us achieve our aim.
1. DON’T LIVE IN THE IMAGE OF ANOTHER PERSONALITY
Women are attracted to men who have their own personality. They know it if you’re trying to be a certain movie star or rapper. Be yourself and project your own image. It presents you as been original and very confident.
2. PROJECT YOUR PRINCIPLES AND STICK TO THEM
Practice what you preach and preach what you practice. Some guys tend to brag about principles they uphold, and in the next breath, you see them doing something contrary. When you project positive principles, you’re seen as confident and very determined, and wins people over to you. But after bragging about those principles, if you’re found to be doing otherwise, you’ll immediately become repulsive to your admirers.
3.TREAT YOUR FRIENDS RIGHT
Women look out for how you treat your friends. If you make your friends feel less important, you only show that you don’t care about people. Even if you pay all the bills when you go out, don’t make it obvious. Don’t make comments that suggest that you’re the bank roller. This only projects you as being unnecessarily pompous. That lady knows immediately that you’ll do same to her. Use your friends to project a positive image of yourself. Offer to help them unconditionally and they’ll be the ones singing your praise to the world.
4. WORK HARD
Being a lazy man won’t do you any good. Being hardworking makes you attractive. Take your job seriously. If you have no job, look for one, or you can start your own business. Women admire guys who take charge of their lives and work hard to achieve their dreams.
4. DRESS PROPERLY
Dressing properly doesn’t mean put on a three piece suit all the time or wear the most expensive apparel. Dress to suit the occasion. Look for colors that blend with your complexion. Add the appropriate accessories. But don’t overdress; it makes you look like a masquerade.
5. OBSERVE PERSONAL HYGIENE
A guy who maintains personal hygiene is very attractive. You may be a fashion freak but if you have a bad breath, that’s simply a minus. An overly grown fingernail with dirt is disgusting. That body odor will damage your confidence. Be a gentleman and practice some hygiene.
6. BE OUT-GOING AND OPTIMISTIC ABOUT LIFE
When people find out that you’re very optimistic about life, they’ll be attracted to you. This is because you inspire them to also take life with a positive look. Feel good about life because if don’t, chances are that, you won’t look good.
7. ALWAYS WEAR A SMILE
People who smile are naturally attractive. But don’t fake it. Faking a smile makes you look weird.
8. READ A LOT
Reading exposes you to a lot of information. This gives you the opportunity to comment on issues when they come up. In fact, when women find that you’re very knowledgeable, they’ll always seek your opinion on issues. That’s makes you attractive.
9. MANAGE YOUR ANGER
Everyone is permitted to be angry; it’s inherent or natural. But those who can quickly rebound and get to dealing with the situation are attractive. I’m not talking about being malicious or taking revenge on whatever got you angry. I’m talking about settling the issues amicably, always being in the position to forgive. When you forgive people, you immediately start your healing process. Holding grudges against people is “cancerous”, it will eat you up.
When people wrong you, be the first to initiate the reconciliation process. This cripples your adversary and wins him over. In a relationship, women are attracted to guys with a kind heart.
When you also wrong people apologize immediately. This presents you as matured and good-nurtured person. Instantly, that makes you attractive.
As you go on this journey to develop yourself better, you may discover other great ways. Don’t be scared to try them out. If never try, you never win. So good luck buddy!